Grandad Beck’s Wedding caused gossip in West Dorset
|Mr and Mrs Beck at Corfe Mullen Church 23rd November 1929|
The wedding was reported in the Bridport News, not a lot of information but it does tell us that Jo was given away by her father and Fred House son-in-law (my grandfather) was best man. Unusually the certificate is signed by four witnesses, Fredrick House and three from Jo's family including her father Ernest. The initials are difficult to read but the other two could be, Jo's sisters Bertha and Rose Wayman.
We have this one photograph of the happy couple, showing Jo looking very smart in the latest fashion and a large bunch of flowers.
Grandad Beck would have first met Aunty Jo many years before, possibly during WW1. We know that she was a friend of my Grandmother May (Grandad Beck's daughter) and family lore is that they worked together at Blandford Telephone Exchange during the war. Quite why Aunty Jo would have worked in Blandford, were Grandad Beck was Superintendent (1915-1919), makes me question this. In the 1911 census Jo was with her parents and 9 brothers and sisters at Corfe Mullen near Wimborne.
There are many photos of the Beck family including Jo from the time the family lived at Beaminster and Bridport. Jo also appears in photos taken at Wytherston after May's marriage. There is no doubt that Jo spent a lot of time with the family before Rebecca (Grandad Beck's first wife) died.
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|Miss Fry (Cheesemaker), Rebecca Beck, Fred House, May House and baby Os, Jo Wayman Taken at Wytherston Farm c1926|
I was told by an elderly gentleman that Supt. Beck's second marriage caused a scandal in the town and was the subject of a lot of gossip. Grandad Beck was not a stranger to this, he must have caused a sensation when he married his first wife as well. The reason for the gossip was the difference in their ages. Grandad Beck was 54 years old and Jo 29 years old, having celebrated her birthday on 13 October. Also, some people would have been considered, the marriage too soon after the death of my Great Grandmother Rebecca (Grandad Beck’s first wife) 19 months before.
May and Jo were closed in age, May being a few months younger. I have seen a photograph on which May has written," Mother with Jo, little did I know then that Jo would marry my father" - or words to that effect. There are other photographs of Aunty Jo with the Rebecca and May, including the one I wrote about here.
Aunty Jo was one of 11 Children, the eldest 2 may have had a different father. Her father was Ernest Wayman and mother Minnie Mary Ellen. Jo's father was a bricklayer and builder living in Corfe Mullen. Aunty Jo was close to her family and often spoke of them. Sisters Eleanor, Margaret and Brothers Frank, Ernest and Stanley supported Aunty Jo at Grandad Beck's funeral.
Aunty Jo and Grandad Beck never had any children of their own but the three grandchildren spent many a happy holiday at Poole after Grandad Beck retired. Aunty Jo kept contact with the family until her death in 1983. I can just remember her coming to stay with us at Wytherston around 1963 or 1964.
|Aunty Jo when she stayed with us at Wytherston about 1964|
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Bridport News: 29 November 1929 p8 Col 2&6
1911 Census (accessed via Ancestry.co.uk)